Thursday, January 22, 2009

Short Story About Jakarta Life


It has been about 25 days I life in Jakarta. There's so many things that I have received, and of course tima after time I have able to adapted in this situation, custom and environment that over all almost different with my past hometown. From the one side we can imagine that Jakarta is an fantastic town, which every thing is seems to modern and available. Jakarta also the center of goverment, business area in Indonesia. But the positive image is not always follow it. Indonesia citizen certainly can see and argue that Jakarta is a 'cruel city'. Which if we not able to stiff and strong we can get many trouble in living there.

I remember when I want to go here. Many of my friends talked to me that 'do not too innocent, do not too kind if you in Jakarta, because if you stay like this you will be oppressed'. The argument and suggestion of my friends make me thinks hard. I do not believe if I have to follow their suggestion. And I am sure It was not like they thought. Not all of people there have a cruel heart, although perhaps there are many of them who like that. I also affirm my self when many of people said that I will change in next periode after living there, through my life style and minded. I want to be a ussual girl who still stay simple, not over, and kind...

Now it almost one month I living here. Jakarta life is begin to change my mind. Not because I have to follow the style of this metro town, or I have to half with many people. But how the way I have to do a flexible performance in the middle of this life.

Fortunately I stay in my cousin house who really care and give me many of new thought. She teach me to leaving here, adapted with this city, and preare my self if oneday I get job interview. She also often ask me to the shopping center. At a first time perhaps I feel annoyed with her mind. Although She is rich people but She shouldnt to spend money to buy a high class clothes, or shoes, or bag. But when She talked to me that all of these is a must to living here, I begin to think twice. She talked to me that if we do not use an expensive things when I walk in the center of town, or when I working, it is sure that many people will not be respect to us, and will override us.

It have happened in me when I visit Pondok Indah mall, Taman Anggrek Mall, Grand Indonesia mall. When my cousin asked me to visit a counter which sell an international brand, sometimes I feel uncomfortable with my self. And perhaps it is true which what she said to me that we make up our selves for the confidence and in order to will not be override by somebody else.

My cousins is like my mom now. She is really care of me. She always think to change my self. She also often to bought me all of everthing that I should have.

Now I become ussual to buy good branded clothes, bag with quite expensive prices which I never done before. My cousins also often bought me. She never hard to spend much money for me, and it is make me feel to do something more for her.

I cant think wisely with my self today. Should I have to follow this or I have to stay the same? here I should to be more individual because of the culture here force me to do this, and once again I think should I gonna be like this.

My beloved readers, perhaps it is a ussual things that you often experienced ehen you stay in Metro city. But for me it is a new things that should be chosed. But over all I enjoy living here which give me much experience.

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  1. Rose, you will learn. You do not have to compromise your basic values when you learn to be street smart in a city. You are lucky that you are staying with your cousin who will guide you properly and teach you city survival skills. Learn without losing your innocence!

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  2. Big city are scary at times especially if you are not familiar with it yet. But take your time, and stay safe.

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  3. Hi dear Niar!
    living in a big city or even hanging the place of living is a difiicult thing!
    but becuase we are still young we can easily adopt ourself, i dont mean to lose our own culture and the way we are!
    you know during these years that we try to be mature and learn everything trough expriencingwe find a way for thinking we have to be wise and controllll the way of our growth!
    you know in iran in all big cities i mean province's and state's center this problem of consuumming exist! being a consumer of expensive brands of jewls watch clothes..... is a world probllem! that day by day you can se its power on specciaally youngesters!
    one day about 3 years ago in a morning that i wanted to go to a class I look my self and just take alittle look to my clothes and their brands, shokinh becuase all the thing from nose to toes under and on were from famouse brands!
    on that time I became ashamed myself that is it really right t be like this!
    we have to ask this question is it right to fint our character through these brands,1?

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  4. unfortunately we all the world go through this cosuming culture! its sth like brainwashing but its a international culture washing!
    we have to control this desire of consuming! but i know all these are words! we have to show ourselve to ourselves that we are an action person! not a wordddy person!
    even my neice,10 years old school girl, pay attention to these stuff! the growth of this change day by day is quicker that the previous day!
    oooh sorrry for talking this much!
    wish you good luck and golden future!

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  5. Hi nair!
    I'm sorry I haven't been here for a while!
    reading your post, Jacarta is like Tokyo.
    Tokyo is very convenient and you can get various things easily.
    but it's a very busy town.
    sometimes I wanna live at the countryside. but I haven't lived in other places.
    anyway if you have a chance to come to Tokyo, just tell me.
    I'll see you around:)

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  6. Time will make you adapt to the new environment. Hopefully your native identity will not change. Previously Niar is still same with present Niar.

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  7. Take it one day at a time, Niar. You will gradually adapt to the ways of the city and be street smart. And always listen to your cousin. She lives there and knows a lot about city life.

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  8. Hi dear niar!
    how do you do!?
    how is the life in Jakarta!?
    I had updated my blog, I will become happy to have your comment on my posts.
    Good luck and nice time in Jakarta!
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  9. What a fascinating post, Niar, and good comments too.

    You have to adjust to some degree - I call it protective colouration. You know, like the animal who adjusts colour to blend in. But you do not have to lose the key you, nor should you forget your roots. Jakarta is not Indonesia, just as Sydney is not Australia.

    There is another issue as well, one that I try to drive home to my daughters.

    You know that we live on the edge of Sydney's eastern suburbs. This is a typical metro consumerist society. There are a lot of very wealthy people, people who have far more money than we do. I try to make the point that what is petty cash for them is serious money for us.

    My wife is a CEO and competes in what is still a man's world. She needs good clothes. I see nothing wrong with this. On the other hand, if the clothes become the person, then there is a problem. So I tell my daughters to spend selectively.

    Not sure how much all this helps. But I loved the picture of Jakarta. And your cousin sounds smart.

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  10. I hope you can enjoy this city, you'll get used to this city in a very short time, I believe so.
    Good luck, you'll find your 'way' soon.

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